Me....I always have questions that roll around in the back of my head usually I can figure them out.  However, the one question that I can't seem to answer is the "what" what makes some relationships last 60 years and some 60 days?  What makes some couples fit together like pieces of a puzzle, while others fit more like a rubics cube?.  I have always wondered what puts the spark in a relationship and what makes the fire fizzle out?  What makes a man look twice at the one he's with or twice at the one he wishes he was with.  What makes a woman go out of her to please the one she loves even though most of the time she feels like she doesn't exist.