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3 Types of Women A B & C

Time to just "B "

I have a circle of friends and after years of watching and learning from them,

I have come to the conclusion that there are 3 types of women.

 

The "A" type: All about me, all the world owes me, all things surround me
The "B" type: before I can take care of you I have to take care of me
The "C" type: see about you, see about them, see about everyone and everything but ME

The "A" type girls, are AMAZING, they live solely to please themselves, they don't bog themselves down with the burden of other peoples worries. They will call you to help them but when you need them, they can't be found or they are too busy to help. They have no concern to give of themselves, and truly believe that knowing them is the greatest thing that has ever happened to you. Odd but they never seem to be happy most of the time just negative. I believe the term is "A BIG BITCH"
Now, there is type "B" these girls are great, they will take the time to care about you but only after they care about themselves. They have somehow learned that taking care of others is important but, taking care of yourself is just as important. They will come when you call but, not at the neglect of themselves. I think this is what makes them the people that other people want to be around, because of this balance they are happy most of the time.
Then there is ME!!!! I am a "C" like another one of my friends, we take care of everyone and everything before we take care of ourselves. If you call us we will drop what we are doing and come "A RUNNIN". We will give you the shirt of our backs, nothing is out of reach ( murder is the exception to the rule, your on your own with that). We put, our health, well being and sanity to the test to please others. WHAT ARE WE NUTS!!!! I have decided to be a "B" they seem to have the answer. I am going to take time to pamper myself, purchase some sweet bath oils from my store along with a sexy lingerie and I am going to dedicate 2 night a week to me and only me. MAYBE THE PLAYGROUND WILL COME OPEN IF I GET THE BLACK RINGS FROM UNDER MY EYES!
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the trophy

I have always thought that the most beautiful people were as lovely on the inside as they were on the out.  NOW, I'm not saying that inner beauty is what makes you want to jump a persons bones when you first see them, nope pretty sure its the outter, thats what gives you quivers. However, I think it totally different for women then it is for men,once a woman loves a man she will stick by him and love him no matter what he looks like down the road.  Fat, bald, gray, it dosen't matter, women still see the man they fell in love with no matter how much he changes pysically.  MEN on the other hand its a different matter. Men will love you as long as you stay pretty or rich, or what ever it was that drew them to you in the first place, if you change so will they. The minute you are no longer a trophy to be shown around and make him the envy of all of his friend, you start to loose value. OK... maybe not all men are like that but lets face it most of them are.  Just pick up a couple of pounds or get a little gray and see how he starts acting, all of a sudden you turn into quasimoto.  You know when you have lost value when he stops taking you any where, and if anyone comes by the house, he steps outside and closes the door behind him as if to say that what's inside, is too hideous to be viewed by mortal man. I wonder What makes women so excepting.

 

What happens when you stop being the trophy? I have always thought that the most beautiful people were as lovely on the inside as they were on the out.  NOW, I'm not saying that inner beauty is what makes you want to jump a persons bones when you first see them, nope pretty sure its the outter, thats what gives you quivers. However, I think it totally different for women then it is for men,once a woman loves a man she will stick by him and love him no matter what he looks like down the road.  Fat, bald, gray, it dosen't matter, women still see the man they fell in love with no matter how much he changes pysically.  MEN on the other hand its a different matter. Men will love you as long as you stay pretty or rich, or what ever it was that drew them to you in the first place, if you change so will they. The minute you are no longer a trophy to be shown around and make him the envy of all of his friend, you start to loose value. OK... maybe not all men are like that but lets face it most of them are.  Just pick up a couple of pounds or get a little gray and see how he starts acting, all of a sudden you turn into quasimoto.  You know when you have lost value when he stops taking you any where, and if anyone comes by the house, he steps outside and closes the door behind him as if to say that what's inside, is too hideous to be viewed by mortal man. I wonder What makes women so excepting.

I've always wondered about the What?  What  makes a relationship last? What makes a relationship hot? What makes the difference between being exciting or dull.  Some friendships are forged from the word hello and some take a longer, then there are those that are just NEVER going to happen no matter what you do. What makes the connection or lack there of.  What makes a man decide to tell you that he is no longer going to take part in any holiday day that requires his participation and that includes birthdays?(UGGGGHH  WHAT!!!!!). So after much consideration I have a few theories and want to hear from others who have wondered about the WHAT?

I find myself being confused most of the time about relationships.  What does a man mean when he says " I am no longer going to be envolved in any holiday or any day for that matter that requires my participation" . WHAT????  So, let me get this straight.... you want me to cook,clean,do laundry, take care of the bills, and the house as well as hold down a 9 to 5 and YOU can't be envolved in  days that show me that you care.   WOW!!  On the other hand I have a girlfriend who's husband does EVERYTHING!!! all she does is plays tennis and tans on the boat all summer, then in the winter spends her time in the mall shopping for the latest fashions. However, he still manages to validate her on every holiday or day that requires his participation.   What the hell?

Me....I always have questions that roll around in the back of my head usually I can figure them out.  However, the one question that I can't seem to answer is the "what" what makes some relationships last 60 years and some 60 days?  What makes some couples fit together like pieces of a puzzle, while others fit more like a rubics cube?.  I have always wondered what puts the spark in a relationship and what makes the fire fizzle out?  What makes a man look twice at the one he's with or twice at the one he wishes he was with.  What makes a woman go out of her to please the one she loves even though most of the time she feels like she doesn't exist.